The player lifestyle probably isn't a great option for introverts.
PROBABLY RIGHT, P!
Take ME To The Bridge, Pimp!
I'M UGLY AND I HAVE A PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER! (READ EVERYTHING I'VE WRITTEN IN THE BLOG POSTS ABOVE AND BELOW. ALL OF THAT WRITING WILL PROVE TO YOU THAT I HAVE A PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER!) SECONDLY, DON'T SPEAK TO ME OR EVEN LOOK AT ME BECAUSE I HAVE HIGH THEORY OF MIND CAPABILITY, SO I'LL BE ABLE TO TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE THINKING WHEN YOU SPEAK* TO ME OR EVEN LOOK AT ME!
There’s a reason some people hate making eye contact fusion.net/story/148054/t via
I Said Don't Look At ME Bitch! Bitch, Didn't I Just Tell You Not To Look At ME!
"Don't Look At Nan Nigga...Na Na Na Na Na...Nan Nigga!" - Nigga Doggy Dogg
"Don't Look At Nan Nigga...Na Na Na Na Na...Nan Nigga!" - Nigga Doggy Dogg
*IF YOU DO SPEAK TO ME I'LL TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN WHEN YOU SAY WHAT YOU SAY TO ME. IN OTHER WORDS, I'LL TELL YOU THE UNCONSCIOUS REASON YOU SAID WHATEVER IT IS YOU'VE SAID TO ME! READ SOME DAVID LIVINGSTONE SMITH! BUT DON'T LOOK AT ME CUZ I'LL TELL YOU WHAT YOU'RE THINKING IF YOU LOOK AT ME AND OFTEN TIMES I DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU'RE THINKING, SO DON'T LOOK AT ME! ("A MANIAC A BRAINIAC!" - O)
Know What Cracks ME Up? The Fact That I've Posted Photos Of People On This Blog WHO I Really Don't Know And WHO Really Don't Know ME! And All Of Them Are Looking At This Shit And Thinking To Themselves, "I Really Don't Know This Guy And I Really Don't Want My Name Or Photos Associated With Him Or These Blogs Because He's EMBARRASSING And I Don't Want To Be Apart Of That EMBARRASSMENT!" HA! HA!
http://methalashun.blogspot.com/2015/03/excuse-me-does-anyone-knowi-dont-really.html
![The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by [Buss, David M.]](https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/517ANejhiCL.jpg)
"Then you get those nerds who can't get anything right. They come on strong at first but can't keep it together....Some guys just seem to know what they are doing. They know how to approach you and just make you feel good." - White Girl Texan Describing ME Perfectly!
(COME ONNNNNN)
Know What Cracks ME Up? The Fact That I've Posted Photos Of People On This Blog WHO I Really Don't Know And WHO Really Don't Know ME! And All Of Them Are Looking At This Shit And Thinking To Themselves, "I Really Don't Know This Guy And I Really Don't Want My Name Or Photos Associated With Him Or These Blogs Because He's EMBARRASSING And I Don't Want To Be Apart Of That EMBARRASSMENT!" HA! HA!
http://methalashun.blogspot.com/2015/03/excuse-me-does-anyone-knowi-dont-really.html
"Then you get those nerds who can't get anything right. They come on strong at first but can't keep it together....Some guys just seem to know what they are doing. They know how to approach you and just make you feel good." - White Girl Texan Describing ME Perfectly!
(COME ONNNNNN)
Why may nerds in high school have had lower income in adulthood? One
reason could be that the social awkwardness did not translate into
dollar signs after high school/college graduation, or chose a bad major,
or just didn’t know how to translate their thoughts into real-world
success.
EvolutionistX
If you take out the not-so-fancy words, the finding is actually that people who are low-status in high school are also low status after high school, and people who are high-status during high school are also high-status after high school.
https://notpoliticallycorrect.me/2017/08/12/nerds-vs-jocks-different-life-history-strategies/comment-page-1/#comment-3641
https://staffanspersonalityblog.wordpress.com/2015/01/01/chicks-dig-jerks-right/
this was an introverted, neurotic and conscientious person, or in more plain English, an unsociable, nervous, geeky guy.
BY THE WAY, WHY WERE/ARE MY OLDER BROTHERS MUCH MORE SUCCESSFUL WITH FEMALES THAN ME? BECAUSE THEY'RE BIGGER THAN ME, MORE DOMINANT AROUND FEMALES, MORE ASSERTIVE AND CONFIDENT AROUND THEM (THEY MAKE THEM (FEMALES) FEEL MORE SECURE AND COMFORTABLE), AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, THEY'RE MORE POSSESSIVE WITH FEMALES. THEY MATE GUARD THEM. THEY DON'T INTRODUCE THEM TO THEIR COMPETITORS (OTHER MALES) OR SHARE THEM WITH OTHER MALES LIKE ME, PAPI.
Females Will Approach ME And Come On To ME, But I Eventually Turn Them Off. Why? Because I Don't Respond To Them In The Verbal And Physical Manner That They Want And Expect. Instead, I Shy Away And Sometimes Walk* Away From Them, Which Leads To Them SHU-ING ME Away (Get Outta Here). I'm Autistic, Remember?
I'm Slow Both Mentally And In Regard To Life (I Try To Maintain My Pace On The Slow Life History Trajectory). Projectile! I'm Especially Slow When Dealing With Fast Girls Like You, Leanne. They'll Signal To ME (Hint To ME Or Make It Obvious To ME) That They're Interested In ME, But Because I Don't Know How To Respond To Them I End Up Frustrating Them ("Doesn't He Get It?", "What's He Doing?!"), Losing Them, And Having Them Wonder What I Wanted* With Them In The 1st Place. WHOA IS ME (I've Repeated This To You All Numerous Times, Read Thru My Blogs)! Now, Why Do I Lose Them? because I'm New To This. I'm New To Interacting With Girls, So I'm Not Very Good At It (Interacting With Them) Since I Don't Have Much Experience Doing It (R00KIE**). As An Aside, I've NEVER Paid For A Prostitute (Given A Prostitute Money To Have SEX With Her) Nor Have I Given Strippers Tips ($1). Hell, The 1st Time I'd Ever Set Foot In A Strip Club Was Just Recently (Here In Huh Why E) And That Was Because My Friend (NU) Bounces There And I Wanted Drinks. Know What I Have Done, Though? I've Given Girls A Couple Of Bucks Here And There To Help Them Out, But I Really Think They've Just Used ME For My Monies Because They've Never Reciprocate My Generosity And Kindness. As A Matter Of Fact, They've Perceived It As Weakness! (See Shamira? She Gave ME Money And I LOST It Fast). SUCCA! (MothaFuccin' Tricc!)
"I think she had an idea of who I was that she'd made up", he says...
*"What Do You Want From Me?!" Is What I Often Hear After Several Weak To Months Of Harassing Them As They Think To Themselves, "You're Not What I Expected. You're Not What I Want." (Don't Walk Away Boyyyyyy!)
"I Been Turnin' Into A Loner" - Silky MothaFuccin' SliiiiiiM!
https://www.amazon.com/Party-One-Manifesto-Anneli-Rufus/dp/1569245134
The One And Only! Party Time!
EvolutionistX
If you take out the not-so-fancy words, the finding is actually that people who are low-status in high school are also low status after high school, and people who are high-status during high school are also high-status after high school.
https://notpoliticallycorrect.me/2017/08/12/nerds-vs-jocks-different-life-history-strategies/comment-page-1/#comment-3641
https://staffanspersonalityblog.wordpress.com/2015/01/01/chicks-dig-jerks-right/
this was an introverted, neurotic and conscientious person, or in more plain English, an unsociable, nervous, geeky guy.
Well-intentioned introvert goes on a first date. HT @dorrismccomics
BY THE WAY, WHY WERE/ARE MY OLDER BROTHERS MUCH MORE SUCCESSFUL WITH FEMALES THAN ME? BECAUSE THEY'RE BIGGER THAN ME, MORE DOMINANT AROUND FEMALES, MORE ASSERTIVE AND CONFIDENT AROUND THEM (THEY MAKE THEM (FEMALES) FEEL MORE SECURE AND COMFORTABLE), AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, THEY'RE MORE POSSESSIVE WITH FEMALES. THEY MATE GUARD THEM. THEY DON'T INTRODUCE THEM TO THEIR COMPETITORS (OTHER MALES) OR SHARE THEM WITH OTHER MALES LIKE ME, PAPI.
Females Will Approach ME And Come On To ME, But I Eventually Turn Them Off. Why? Because I Don't Respond To Them In The Verbal And Physical Manner That They Want And Expect. Instead, I Shy Away And Sometimes Walk* Away From Them, Which Leads To Them SHU-ING ME Away (Get Outta Here). I'm Autistic, Remember?
I'm Slow Both Mentally And In Regard To Life (I Try To Maintain My Pace On The Slow Life History Trajectory). Projectile! I'm Especially Slow When Dealing With Fast Girls Like You, Leanne. They'll Signal To ME (Hint To ME Or Make It Obvious To ME) That They're Interested In ME, But Because I Don't Know How To Respond To Them I End Up Frustrating Them ("Doesn't He Get It?", "What's He Doing?!"), Losing Them, And Having Them Wonder What I Wanted* With Them In The 1st Place. WHOA IS ME (I've Repeated This To You All Numerous Times, Read Thru My Blogs)! Now, Why Do I Lose Them? because I'm New To This. I'm New To Interacting With Girls, So I'm Not Very Good At It (Interacting With Them) Since I Don't Have Much Experience Doing It (R00KIE**). As An Aside, I've NEVER Paid For A Prostitute (Given A Prostitute Money To Have SEX With Her) Nor Have I Given Strippers Tips ($1). Hell, The 1st Time I'd Ever Set Foot In A Strip Club Was Just Recently (Here In Huh Why E) And That Was Because My Friend (NU) Bounces There And I Wanted Drinks. Know What I Have Done, Though? I've Given Girls A Couple Of Bucks Here And There To Help Them Out, But I Really Think They've Just Used ME For My Monies Because They've Never Reciprocate My Generosity And Kindness. As A Matter Of Fact, They've Perceived It As Weakness! (See Shamira? She Gave ME Money And I LOST It Fast). SUCCA! (MothaFuccin' Tricc!)
*"What Do You Want From Me?!" Is What I Often Hear After Several Weak To Months Of Harassing Them As They Think To Themselves, "You're Not What I Expected. You're Not What I Want." (Don't Walk Away Boyyyyyy!)
**They Look At ME, Leanne, And Think To Themselves, "He Looks Like One Of Us. He Looks Like A Local Native. He Looks Like A Fast Talking, Fast Living, Smooth Operator (Criminal), But When I Talk To Him He Isn't. He Isn't Like That At All. In Fact, When I Talk To Him He Comes Off White. He's A Real Oreo, Alright. He's Whiter Than The Whitest Of Us."
"I Been Turnin' Into A Loner" - Silky MothaFuccin' SliiiiiiM!
https://www.amazon.com/Party-One-Manifesto-Anneli-Rufus/dp/1569245134
The One And Only! Party Time!
Some people are notoriously happier alone than with others.
Popularity cues are one reason many women find married men so attractive. The fact that another woman's Detective Agency has already completed her assiduous detective work and endorsed a man is valuable information. If the man had something to hide, surely the wife's Miss Marple would have ferreted it out. But for the men who are the subject of the popularity cue, it's the case of the rich getting richer. Former playboy playmate Kendra Wilkinson chronicles her first sexual encounter with Hugh Hefner in the Playboy Mansion:
One of the girls asked me if I wanted to go upstairs to Hef's room...It seemed like every other girl was going, and if I didn't it would be weird. One by one, each girl hopped on Hef and had sex with him...for about a minute. I studied their every move. Then it was my turn...it was very weird. I wasn't thinking about how much older Hef was - all the body parts worked the same. I wanted to be there.
Men
who are awkward loners or social rejects have a major strike against
them in the view of the Detective Agency, unless they offer compensating
cues. (A BILLION WICKED THOUGHTS)
"Got These Hoes Hugh Hefen Me" - Camarada From Da Ava
https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1154023197060292609
"when women thought a man was single, 59% found him attractive, but when they thought he was in a committed relationship, 90% found him attractive...single women were more interested in poaching an attached man rather than pursuing a single man."
https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1133769561101262850
https://twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1258689949831966721
"when women thought a man was single, 59% found him attractive, but when they thought he was in a committed relationship, 90% found him attractive...single women were more interested in poaching an attached man rather than pursuing a single man."
There is evidence that females of a species as varied guppies, Japanes medaka, black grouse, and Japanese quail prefer to mate with males who have recently mated. Females use other females' choice of males as evidence of their genetic quality; in other words, they copy each other. And some suggest that human females might do the same.The idea is simple: If a woman meets a strange man, she has no basis on which to form an opinion of him. He can be a high-quality man, or he can be a low-quality man; she just doesn't know. However, if he has a wife, that means that at least one woman, who presumably closely inspected his quality before marrying him, found him good enough to marry. So he couldn't be that bad after all; at least one woman found him desirable. So being married (the presence of a wife) is one cross-culturally transportable ornamentation or lekking device that signifies men's superior mate value. (MEAN GENES)
I Gotta Remind Myself To Bring That BLOW UP DOLL With ME To Hawaii And Take It Everywhere I Go, Especially When I'm In The Water! I'm Gonna Make Sure I'm Seen Making Out With It In The Water! (It's A Case Of The Rich Getting Richer And The Poor Getting Poorer! Guys That Have Relationships And Sexual Relations With Lots Of Girls Attract Even More Girls While Guys Like ME Who Have No Relationships And No Sexual Relations With Girls Attract Few Girls!)
Although men can suffer if they develop a reputation of being promiscuous or unprincipled, the aura of being a Casanova or Don Juan also has its benefits, often enhancing social status among men and even, on occasion making such a man more attractive to women. Why? In part because of the well-known consumer effect, whereby any product - shoes, car, food item, Wall Street stock - becomes more desirable if it is seen as being desired by others. And in part because of a logical outgrowth of polygyny as the long-standing, primitive human condition. Polygynous societies are not uniformly polygynous; after all, there are approximately equal numbers of men and women, so it is impossible for all men to be harem-keepers. Those who succeed are likely to be especially powerful, physically or mentally well endowed, high in status, and in control of substantial resources (land, domestic animals, other forms of material wealth, social allies). Given this connection, it is not surprising that men who acquire a reputation for sexual access to many woman are widely perceived to be high in status or control of resources, so that - by a process similar to that described earlier for the "sexy son hypothesis" - success can lead to success...for men. (The Myth of Monogamy)
I Don't Want No Parts UH That!
Female choice can also be influenced by what is popular or stylish at the moment. The phenomenon has been called "mate copying." Here's how it works: A female guppy is given a choice between two different males. This female then observes the male she had rejected being chosen by another female (actually, an artificial model of a female, manipulated by the experimenters). Then the choice test is repeated, whereupon the female is likely to change her mind and prefer the male she had initially rejected but whom she had subsequently observed to be "popular." Not only that, but younger females are likely to copy the preferences shown by older females. (The Myth of Monogamy)
Females develop a taste for males seen in the company of other females, even if the guy is a genetic mutant. In fruit flies, that is. https://academic.oup.com/beheco/advance-article-abstract/doi/10.1093/beheco/ary095/5048798?redirectedFrom=fulltext …
Choosing a "Ditto" Mate: I'll have what she has: https://plus.google.com/101046916407340625977/posts/TU7qtNdBv62 …
FOLLOW THE LEADER! LET'S TAKE RAPPERS, FOR EXAMPLE! MOST OF THEM ARE GENETICALLY INFERIOR (NOT VERY INTELLIGENT (IN ADDITION TO OTHER POOR PERSONALITY TRAITS), NOT VERY ATHLETIC, NOT VERY ATTRACTIVE), BUT FEMALES OF ALL ETHNIC AND SOCIOECONOMIC BACKGROUNDS FLOCK TO THEM. WHY? IT PARTLY HAS TO DO WITH TRIGGERING FEMALES' POPULARITY CUE ("ARE OTHER GIRLS ATTRACTED TO HIM?") AND MATE COPYING TENDENCY ("OTHER GIRLS ARE MATING WITH THIS GUY, SO I SHOULD TOO")!
In others species, too, females develop a taste for genetic "loser" males if they see them in the company of a female peer. https://academic.oup.com/beheco/advance-article-abstract/doi/10.1093/beheco/ary095/5048798?redirectedFrom=fulltext … This was also the topic of the great early teenager commedy "Can’t Buy Me Love."
"Everywhere That I Go You Know I'm By Myself" - Diggidy Dazzle
"female fruit flies rejected a male they observed being rejected by a female and female sailfin mollies (fish) reject males that were observed with a female attempting to escape from them; a similar phenomenon of rejection has been observed in humans" academic.oup.com/biolinnean/art
LADIES, I'M 45 YEARS OLD AND I DON'T HAVE A CHILD OR A WIFE. HELL, I DON'T EVEN HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. AS A MATTER OF FACT, I'VE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND I'M ALWAYS SEEN BY MYSELF WITHOUT A FRIEND (GIRLFRIEND). SO WHAT DOES THAT SIGNAL TO FEMALES (SUBCONSCIOUSLY SIGNAL TO FEMALES)? IT SUBCONSCIOUSLY SIGNALS TO THEM THAT SOMETHING MUST BE WRONG WITH ME,
THAT I MUST BE INADEQUATE, THAT I MUST BE DEFICIENT IN SOME RESPECT,
THAT I MUST BE LACKING IN SOME REGARD, THAT I MUST BE OF A LOWER GENETIC
QUALITY (OF AN INFERIOR PHENOTYPIC STOCK) AND THAT I MUST HAVE SOME PSYCHOLOGICAL (MENTAL) HANG UP (DISORDER)! MAYBE I DO!
"Oh, You Again?" "Not You Again! Go That Way, Loser!"
Of
course, social status and attractiveness to women are highly dependent
on context. Ghetto black status markers (gold caps, jewelry, spinning
rims) don't signal (high) status to upper-middle-class whites. Nor does
bragging about killing people (RAPPERS, INCIDENTALLY, TEND TO BE NERDS
-- TOO RUNTY OR OBESE TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT SPORTS, TOO COWARDLY TO MAKE A
RUN AT THE "GANGSTER" LIFESTYLE THEY GLORIFY, AND NOT-INFREQUENTLY socially-retarded).
I'VE GOT SOME MORE BULLSHIT FOR YOU TO READ! IT'S ABOUT THE NEW KID ON THE BLOCK HYPOTHESIS OR THE NEW KID IN TOWN HYPOTHESIS AND IT'S BEST EXPOUNDED UPON IN THE BOOK BELOW. START READING WHERE I TELL YOU TO START READING! START!
https://books.google.com/books?id=e4WTw50L74MC&pg=PA101&lpg=PA101&dq=Macachiavellian+Intelligence+strange+male&source=bl&ots=doY5bNatKT&sig=JCRLTisIpXS-75BBwXan_8OYpWA&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiTl_iSo-_NAhUB5mMKHQvNDKEQ6AEIHDAA#v=onepage&q=Macachiavellian%20Intelligence%20strange%20male&f=false
Chapter 6! Start Reading At The Top Of Page 95! (Bigger* Guys Run ME Off! A Female Will Be Attracted To ME, But The Big Guy Will Come Around And I'll Run Away. Plus, Females Will Insinuate That They Want To Have SEX With ME (Fuck ME), But Because I DON'T KNOW What To Say Or How To Physically Respond To Them In A Smooth Way They End Up Not Fucking ME And I End Up Not Fucking Them! I Just End Up Fucking Myself! The End!)
Female primates, for their part, often show a particular interest in mating with a male who is the new guy on the block. Paradoxically, although these new arrivals are nearly always low is social rank, they are often sexually appealing to females. For example, in one troop of Japanese macaques, a newly arrived male occupied the lowest social rank but mated with more different females than any other male. In one remarkable case, a female red howler monkey consistently turned down the local boys but was receptive anytime she encountered a female from a neighboring troop.
The human equivalent - if any- isn't clear, but one hint may come from the interest and even fascination often generated by the "drifter," the mysterious newcomer. Even the cliche "You will meet a tall, dark stranger" might also capture some of the (literal) romance of novelty. On an evolutionary level, it is at least possible that this "strange-male preference" derives from inbreeding avoidance. In which case, it isn't so strange after all. (The Myth of Monogamy)
I Was Thinking About The Ideal Female. Here Are Some Of The Interests, Traits, And Characteristics That She'd Have To Possess. She'd Have To Eat Paleo (Then Eat Ma Pussy), She'd Have To Know About Human Evolution And Genetics And Apply Them To Her Life And Outlook On Life (She Wouldn't Have To Know As Much As ME, But A Firm Understanding Of Its Tenets Would Be Enough), She'd Have To Be College Educated And Worldly, She'd Have To Be An Atheist, She'd Have To Come From An Intellectual And Athletic Family Background, She'd Have To Be Slim, 5'10, And Dark Skinned, She'd Have To Be Part Polynesian, She'd Have To NOT Be On Twitter And Instagram, She'd Have To NOT Have Tattoos, Etc., Etc., Etc. In Other Words, She'd Have To Be Very Similar To ME, Which Means She Most Likely Doesn't Exist. Anyhow, If I Could Have A Child With Myself i Wood! (Maybe One Day A Poor Boy Like ME Will Get To Have SEX.)
Now This Leads To The Type Of Polynesian Female I'm Looking For. The Ideal Hawaiian Female Would Be One With 25% Or More Hawaiian DNA, An Athletic Body Type (Tall, Slim With Tapered Legs) And An Above Average IQ (As Indicated By A Degree From A 4-Year University Or Acceptance To A 4-Year University) From A 2-Parent Home With Parents And Siblings That Have Above Average IQs And Above Average Athleticism. In Other Words, A Hawaiian Female That's Similar To ME! But I'm Unique, So The Likelihood Of ME Finding A Female That's Similar To ME Is Slim (Like Finding A Needle In A Haystack). So, I'll Probably Never Find This Dream Girl! Oh, And From My Social Class. And At Least 5'7"! (I'm A Dreamer And Nuttin' Cum To Dreamer! I Got Nuttin' Cummin'!) Beggers Can't Be Choosers!
I
Don't Speak Smoothly To Females, I Don't Connect (Click) With Them, I'm
Not A Great Conversationalist, I Don't Respond To Their Sexual Cues (Eye
Glances, Facial Expressions, Body Language), I'm Too Slow And I Don't
Have Game. If I Had Game, If I Could Speak Smoothly To Them, If I Could Connect With Them,
If I Could Respond To Their Sexual Cues And Move Fast With Them I'd Be Able To FUCK FAST BITCHES FAST (On The First Night) Without Giving Them A Dime.
As A Matter Of Fact, If I Had Game They'd Be Paying ME! But I Don't
Have Game! I Don't Telle Girls What They Want To Hear! I Don't Telle
Girls Things That Will Trigger Positive Thoughts And Emotions About ME
In Their Mind! I Don't Brag And Boast About Myself To Them! I Don't
Telle Girls Things That Trigger Positive Thoughts About Themselves In
Their Mind! I Don't Telle Girls Things That Trigger Positive Sexual
Thoughts In Their Minds! I Telle Them The Truth! And I Mock And Make Fun Of Them! I'm Not A Pick Up Or Stick Up Artist! I'm A Con-Artist And Today My MothaFuccin' Name Is Billy Dee Williams! (FASTER GUY FASTER! I'M GOING TO POST SOME PASSAGES FROM THE FOLLY OF FOOLS AND WHY WE LIE CONCERNING SELF-DECEPTION AND HOW SELF-DECEPTION HELPS YOU WITH MATING (IF YOU CAN DECEIVE YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR INTENTIONS WITH A POTENTIAL MATE YOU'LL BE BETTER ABLE TO DECEIVE THAT POTENTIAL MATE). THIS IS WHY GUYS THAT ARE G00D SEDUCERS ARE SO SUCCESSFUL WITH FEMALES. THEY THEMSELVES ARE SELF-DECEIVED AND DECEPTIVE!)
"My Recipe Is Treachery!" - Doggy Dogg
WHAT DO I MEAN IN THE ABOVE QUOTE? I MEAN THAT GUYS THAT CAN DECEIVE GIRLS ABOUT THEIR COMMITMENT AND SEXUAL FIDELITY DO BETTER WITH THEM (GIRLS). THEY CAN FOOL THEMSELVES AND THE GIRLS ABOUT THEIR INTENTIONS IN THE RELATIONSHIP. THAT IS, THEY CAN FOOL GIRLS INTO BELIEVING THAT THEY WANT TO BE WITH THEM FOR THE REST OF THEIR (GIRLS') LIVES WHEN IN REALITY THEY JUST WANT TO BE WITH THEM FOR THE NIGHT!
SO, MOST GUYS JUST WANT TO USE GIRLS FOR SEX. THEY DON'T WANT TO HAVE KIDS WITH THEM OR GET MARRIED TO THEM OR HAVE A LONG TERM, MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. THEY JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM WHENEVER THEY WANT. SO, GUYS THAT ARE GOOD AT DECEIVING GIRLS ABOUT THEIR INTENTIONS WITH THEM (DECEIVING THEM ABOUT THEIR COMMITMENT AND SEXUAL FIDELITY TO THEM) ARE BETTER AT DEVELOPING AND SUSTAINING RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM (GIRLS).
BUT THERE'S AN ONGOING EVOLUTIONARY ARMS RACE BETWEEN MALES AND FEMALES WITH REGARD TO THIS DECEPTION AND MANIPULATION AND THOSE FEMALES WHO ARE BETTER ABLE TO DETECT DECEPTION (BETTER ABLE TO SEE THROUGH A GUY'S PROMISE OF COMMITMENT AND SEXUAL FIDELITY) AND BETTER ABLE TO AVOID MANIPULATION (BETTER ABLE TO AVOID BEING USED FOR SEX AND THEN ABANDONED) WILL HAVE A REPRODUCTIVE ADVANTAGE, ESPECIALLY IN A K-selected Environment AND THEIR GENES THAT INCLINE THEM TO BE MORE WISE AND WARY WILL SPREAD (ESPECIALLY IN A K-selected Environment) AT THE EXPENSE OF FEMALES WHO AREN'T AS SEXUALLY SAVVY.
"Hey, Girl, I Don't Wanna LOVE You!...Hey, Girl, I Just Wanna Fuck You! I Just Wanna Fuuuuuuck You!" - Nigga Doggy Dogg
"I Just Wanna Fuck, Don't Wanna Fall In LOVE. You Can Ride Ma Dicc While She Succ Ma Nuttz!" - G Puerto Rico
Listen To Robert At The 3:33 Mark!
In Addition To Not Being Smooth With Females, I'm SOCIALLY AWKWARD And
This Is Partly Because Of My Genes (My Social Inhibition) And The Physically And Emotionally Abusive Household I Was Raised In As Well As The Fact
That I Didn't Have One Consistent Peer Group That I Associated With And
Identified With Growing Up (Sometimes I Associated With Whites,
Sometimes With Blacks, Sometimes With Polynesians, Sometimes With
Filipinos, Sometimes With East Asians, Etc.). Plus, I've Never Been A
Big Talker Or Sweet Talker Or Casual Conversationalist. That Means I
Don't Talk A Lot And I Don't Small Talk (I Don't Shoot The Shit But Imma Shoot That Bitch!).
In Fact, I Was Mostly Taciturn For Much Of My Life And People (Parents,
Teachers, Coaches, Girls) Would Go Out Of Their Way To Engage ME In
Conversation (They Would Want To Speak To ME Even Though I Didn't Want
To Speak To Them), So I NEVER
Really Learned How To Speak To People. So, Nowadays, When I Speak To
Guys And Gals I Come Off Clumsily To Them (In A Psychological Sense) And
Thus Don't Put Them At Ease Or Make Them Feel Comfortable (The
Conversations That I Have With Them Usually Don't Have A Good Flow And
Come Off More Like An Interview)! I Axe A Question, They Answer, I Axe A
Question, They Answer. It's Almost Like An Interrogation! ("Where Were You At 5AM On Saturday August 5th? Who Were You There With And Why Were You There? Why Were You With That Party And What Did You Do?" Is Typically How My Conversations Go!) (I'M
NOT TRYING TO BE WHITE WHEN I INTERACT WITH PEOPLE AND I'M NOT TRYING
TO BE BLACK WHEN I INTERACT WITH PEOPLE. I'M JUST BEING THE
CONFLICTING MIXTURE OF SOCIAL, CULTURAL, AND GENETIC PERSONALITY TRAITS
THAT I AM!)
IF
YOU GROW UP POOR YOU HAVE A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE AND YOU
EMPLOY A DIFFERENT STRATEGY IN LIFE IN REGARD TO SURVIVING AND MATING, BUT
IF YOU DIDN'T GROW UP POOR LIKE ME YOU HAVE A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT
PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE AND YOU EMPLOY A DIFFERENT STRATEGY IN REGARD TO
SURVIVING AND MATING (There's A Chapter In Evolution For Everyone That Deals Specifically With This; The Fast Life History Strategy And Accompanying Personality Traits Of Impoverished People).
READ THE ABOVE LINKS. THEY'LL GIVE YOU AN IDEA OF HOW I GREW UP. NOW
READ THE SENTENCE BELOW. IT'LL TELL YOU WHY I DON'T HAVE A CHILD AND WHY
I WON'T HAVE A CHILD UNTIL MY CIRCUMSTANCES IMPROVE!
Other sons, remarkably, often remained unmarried and childless. These sons, it seems, preferred to maintain their social status at the expense of their reproductive success.
I'M ACCUSTOMED TO LIVING A CERTAIN WAY (A HIGHER SOCIAL CLASS WAY). IF I WERE TO HAVE A CHILD RIGHT NOW,
THAT CERTAIN WAY (THAT HIGHER SOCIAL CLASS LIVING) WOULD COME TO AN
END. SO, I'M NOT GOING TO HAVE A CHILD UNTIL I CAN PROVIDE MYSELF AND MY
OFFSPRING THE HIGHER SOCIOECONOMIC BACKGROUND AND UPBRINGING THAT I'M
ACCUSTOMED TO. AND THAT MAY BE NEVER! (MY UPBRINGING AND LIFE HAS BEEN MUCH, MUCH DIFFERENT THAN MOST OF MY PEERS, ALL OF MY NEPHEWS AND
EVEN MY SIBLINGS. I WAS THE SPOILED BOY ACCUSTOMED TO THE GOOD LIFE. I NEVER HAD TO WORK (NEVER LIFTED A FINGER) AND EVERYTHING WAS GIVEN TO ME FOR FREE. AND I HAD MY FATHER'S HIGH STATUS BECAUSE HE WAS STILL ALIVE! ARE YOU STARTING TO UNDERSTAND YET, FOLKS? I'M AN EGOTISTICAL, NARCISSISTIC LONER, LOSER WITH NO LIFE OR WIFE!)
I'll Take Passages From The Chapter Entitled Where Have All The Girls Gone So
That You Can Understand How Marriage Relates To Social Mobility! And
How Sex Ratios In A Population Influence Whether Your Female Mate Gives
Birth To A Boy Or Girl! Plus, They'll Help You Understand The Rut I'm In
When It Comes To Finding A Mate From My Social Class Background!
NO ONE IS PREGNANT LADIES! I DON'T GET GIRLS PREGNANT AND I NEVER HAVE! (MAYBE NEVER WILL!)
This
Was ME Saturday Night*. Drinking Alone,
Talking To Myself, Laughing To Myself, Crying To Myself, Playing With
Myself (Fucking Myself)!
NO MAKEUP. NO FACEBOOK.
NO TATTOOS. NO SIX PACK
(Other Than The One On The Flo).
http://psychology.wikia.com/wiki/Love-shynessTHIS DESCRIBES ME TO A T!
http://www.unz.com/pfrost/young-male-and-single/
A lot of boys aren’t wired for game, and there are good reasons why, just as there are good reasons why some people are born male. Male shyness isn’t a pathology. It’s an adaptation to a social environment that values monogamy and high paternal investment while stigmatizing sexual adventurism. Our war on male shyness reflects our perverse desire to create a society of Don Juans and single mothers.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199511/the-cost-shyness
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/beyond-pink-and-blue/201409/shyness-doesn-t-make-boy-any-less-man
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/singletons/200811/shyness-biologically-based-mental-disorder-or-quirk
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201806/is-social-anxiety-getting-in-the-way-your-relationships
This intriguing perspective suggests, then, that social anxiety disorder needs to be understood in a relational context. Alden et al. note that people with this disorder find it difficult, in their intimate relationships, to be able to self-disclose, to reciprocate the affection others show toward them, and even to be able to smile back when people smile at them. Imagine yourself trying to get close to a person who never shares positive emotions, who rarely displays intimacy, and who seems to rebuff your attempts to establish a deep connection.
These findings provide important insights into the relationship deficits experienced by people with social anxiety disorder. It’s not only that these individuals fear closeness, but that they don’t understand how to establish affectional bonds with the people they actually want to have relationships with.
https://www.rewire.org/love/cope-social-anxiety-hurting-sex-life/
http://overcomingsocialanxiety.com/relationship-problems-how-social-anxiety-affects-intimacy/
Rolf Degen
Many male singles stay solo because they essentially lack the attributes a man needs to conquer a woman. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-018-0163-7 …
Related: Demographics doom more and more males to involuntary celibacy
https://plus.google.com/101046916407340625977/posts/8o3isk7Nc1g …
https://twitter.com/degenrolf/status/1027116636090839040
Dontchu Know I Ain't Gots NO GAME!
"Your Man Is A Square And He Gots NO GAME And All You Doin' Is Throwin' Money Down The Drain!" - Ralo Tha Piiiiiimp!
"C The Lion Had No Courage And The Scarecrow Had No Brain And U Can't Control YO Dicc, So That Mean You Ain't Got NO GAME!" - Mr. Free
"That Ugly Nigga Ain't Got NO GAME!...Your Boyfriend Dick Lil Like Flip!" - Messcaleen
I truly cannot fathom that there are men so unstable, so devoid of confidence, morality or backbone that they fear being alone with a woman.
UNFATHOMABLE!
- Paper alpha. There are men who are alpha with other men, but graceless, befuddled pussies with women. It’s not many, but they do exist.
PAPERED UP! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I AM!
(MR. TOUGH GUY AROUND GUYS AND MR. TIMID, TENTATIVE GUY AROUND GIRLS!)
"Don't Be Comin' 'Round Here Playin' Mr. Tough Guy!" - Mr. Free
