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Tuesday, October 1, 2019

87 "I Guess It's Just My Luck, Dude!" - Call That Nigga Suga Buga #Bitch


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Amir Sariaslan‏ @AmirSariaslan Jul 12Mor
Online dating is changing the game.


https://twitter.com/rex_woodbury/status/1638554215156011009
Rex Woodbury
@rex_woodbury
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Mar 22
Stanford's famous "How Couples Meet" chart got a refresh with 2021 data. 55% of heterosexual couples now meet online, up from 37% in the 2017 version of this chart.

Andrew George Thomas
@DrThomasAG
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Mar 25
As discussed recently with
@ChrisWillx
. We're seeing the quick decline of every relationship formation context apart from online and bars. Online was 55% in 2020, growing at about 5% per year. Likely 70% now.w

https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf
INTERNET DATING PROVIDES A WIDER POOL, ESPECIALLY A WIDER POOL OF RACIALLY DISPARATE PEOPLE FROM WHICH TO SELECT A MATE(S)! WHEREAS JUST 30 YEARS AGO MOST PEOPLE FOUND THEIR MATE(S) WITHIN A 25 MILE RADIUS OF WHERE THEY WERE BORN, NOWADAYS YOU CAN FIND YOUR SOUL MATE(S) HALFWAY AROUND THE WORLD AT THE CLICK OF A BUTTON!





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mh7KoFwSyQU
Why Have A Child If That Child Won't Be As Smart, Athletic, And Attractive As You, Nor Have Your Disposition? No Point In Having One!

https://twitter.com/primalpoly/status/972657981740408833
Mark Forman‏ @MarkDForman10 Mar 2018
Replying to @primalpoly
I think people resist the data because the genetic factors are too strong - we & our kids are more or less at the mercy of nature. What do we do with it?
Geoffrey Miller‏Verified account @primalpoly11 Mar 2018
What do we do with it? We make really careful mate choices about who to combine our genes with.
https://x.com/SteveStuWill/status/1050893259466104832
http://methalashun.blogspot.com/2017/09/3.html
6 Billion Divided By 1 Million Equals 6 Thousand. The Average Person Meets About 6 Thousand People Face To Face In His Or Her Lifetime And Half Of Those People Are Of The Opposite Sex And Of This Half Few Are Sexually Mature, Sexually Receptive, And Reproductively Viable When You Meet Them. So, Most People Will Only Meet 50* Or So People Of The Opposite Sex At A Time When Both They And Them Can Produce A Child. What Does This Mean? This Means That If You're Looking To Breed For Intelligence Or Athleticism You Better Surround Yourself With The Right Peers And Mentors Early In Life And Stay Among This Social Group During Your Reproductive Years Or You'll End Up Like ME (High IQ, High Athleticism But Left Out Of The Eugenic Mating Game Because I'm Not A Part Of The Right Social Circle).

*Back Of The Envelope Calculation

"I Guess It's Just My Luck, Dude!" - Call That Nigga Suga Buga #Bitch!

James Thompson‏
No-one can choose their parents, but parents can choose each other, so that most children are the consequence of considered choices, not random luck. Bright parents tend to have bright children: luck has a minor role.
PLAY THE ROLL!

https://x.com/michaelshermer/status/886289689237258240

https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/solutions/2021/07/20/how-genetic-lottery-can-influence-host-lifes-outcomes/7958864002/

Here is a thought experiment for you. How much praise do you deserve for the good things that have happened in your life? And how much blame do you deserve for the bad? As a scientist who specializes in social genomics — the study of how the interplay of genetics and social environments influences our lives — I argue that much of what happens to us in life is really a matter of luck.

Many types of luck affect our lives: who our parents are; when and where we are born; whether the tornado that passed through our hometown hit our house or not. All of these types of luck are beyond our control. And yet, they shape who we are and what happens to us throughout our lives.

One fundamental example of luck is the set of genes we get from our parents. Everyone starts with a random combination of their parents’ genes that are fixed at conception and remain unchanged from that day forward. In other words, we get our start in life through a genetic lottery in which many outcomes are possible, but only one materializes.

The results of this lottery have a big effect on your life. But they don’t control everything. The relationship between our genes and the shape of our lives is far more complicated than that.

...

Our results reliably show that genes seem to influence all of these outcomes. And yet, there is no single gene that makes a person smart, or start a business, or reach for a bottle of wine the moment they get a chance to do so. My team’s research tells us that the real story is more complex and subtle than anyone would have thought just a few years ago.

It turns out that most outcomes are influenced by thousands of genetic variants, each of which has only a tiny effect by itself. But adding up all these tiny effects begins to explain a substantial part of the differences among the people we observed. We call some of these differences — such as whether people go to college or are willing to take risks — genetically complex traits because they are linked to a large number of genes and because the biological function of those genes is often still unknown.

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_luck_and_chance_shape_your_life

https://x.com/robsica/status/1662189137955307531
Rob Sica
@robsica
"...we are nothing more or less than the cumulative biological and environmental luck, over which we had no control, that has brought us to any moment. You're going to be able to recite this sentence in your irritated sleep by the time we're done."

https://www.amazon.com/Determined-Science-Life-without-Free/product-reviews/0525560971/ref=cm_cr_dp_d_show_all_btm?ie=UTF8&reviewerType=all_reviews
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Determined: A Science of Life without Free Will by Robert M. Sapolsky is a powerful take down of the notion of free will and the arguments made by many for its existence. I think my having read Sapolsky’s previous book Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst was very helpful in making the most of Sapolsky’s arguments in this new book and I highly recommend reading that book first. (but it’s not necessary) Together they deliver a powerful, devastating… I would say fatal…. blow to the claim humans have free will.

The book is divided into two sections. The first half explains why free will cannot possibly exist and the second half explains the many ways we and the world would be a lot better off losing our faith in the illusion of free will. And points out the many ways we already have over the past few centuries..

First Half….

In short, in very short, the basic point is that, no matter what, there is never a situation where “we” are the uncaused cause of our choices, decisions, or behaviors. This is a deterministic universe and there is always a previous state, many unknown previous causes and “you” are never, at any level, consciously in control of any of it. Start with any “choice” and consider an endless list of things that took place one second before, a minute before, a day, a week, a month, a year before…during your childhood, in your mother’s womb and on and on even before you were even born….things that took place that you didn’t choose, that you had no control over whatsoever that contributed to “you” making that choice. I say “you” because “you” don’t really exist, as Sapolsky explains, “…..all we are is the history of our biology, over which we had no control, and its interaction with environments, over which we also had no control, creating who we are in the moment.” Or as the great philosopher Popeye the Sailor Man said “I yam what I yam and that’s all what I yam!” Sapolsky would add “…at any given point in time.”

“Free-willers” will tease “I had no choice but to read this book!” Wrong. “You” had a choice, “you” formed an intent… “you” made a decision, “you” developed an opinion, (very important note: you don’t change your mind, your mind is changed) but none of it was FREE. Free of the unknown, unconscious influences and constraints of countless things like genetics, epigenetics, hormones, life experiences….all of which you had no control over. Including…..luck.

Second Half……


Overall, the entire book demonstrates how “you”, the person you have been and now are, was a total crap shoot. The result of millions of crapshoots, actually. Philosopher Galen Strawson coined the phrase “Luck swallows everything.” and luck, pure dumb luck, plays a very big role in this book.

Without any doubt, it is a big reason, a HUGE reason, so many people fight FOR the existence of free will and against the premise of this book, because if what you are, both the good and the bad, wasn’t in your control, it was all just a matter of luck. Successful people really, really hate this part! This means they don’t get to take credit for everything good about themselves, all their talents, achievements, their striking good looks… it’s telling them “You were just born lucky!” That goes over big!

But then, telling an obese person that has struggled with their weight their entire life, mercilessly shamed and blamed, “Hey, you’re not a weak-willed, lazy, shameless glutton. It wasn’t your choice, it’s not your fault after all! Science just discovered you have more of a specific hormone, Leptin, and you have more hormone receptors… or, the bacteria in your gut is partially controlling your appetite and cravings and that is what keeps you ever-hungry.” that, is life-changing.


This is what the second half of the book is about: unjustified, baseless shame and blame causing endless pain and suffering ….as well as a world where undue credit, ego, pride, undue respect and reward make it all a lot worse. All based upon the erroneous belief that we have free will and therefore deserve our circumstances and are morally responsible for our actions. It’s about how while life, the world, may never be more fair, by acknowledging the reality and reimagining our world based on that instead, it can, at the least, be a lot more humane.

Throughout the book, Sapolsky presents the scientific evidence against us having free will that has been piling up exponentially in recent years and gives many examples of human behaviors once thought to be matters of free choice now widely acknowledged to be out of anyone’s control. At this point, AT BEST, the only statement any “compatibilist” could possibly make is “Yes, we do have free will …..except for all the many, many, many ways we must acknowledge we demonstrably don’t.”

That said, Sapolsky takes it even further and explains in great detail why the chances of even that being correct are slim to none. His conclusion, based on decades of research, we have no free will at all….none. Personally, I agree. (For those of you who may care.)

I feel that a paradigm shift is coming…. fast… and the debates and discussions have entered a period of “Free Will Of The Gaps” argumentation much like its “God Of The Gaps” counterpart, with its ever-shrinking gaps, over the last few centuries.

https://x.com/HumanPeacocking/status/1751168919791178069
Rolf Degen
@DegenRolf
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Jan 3
The idea that events can come about by chance alone is alien to human thought and only became established late in cultural development.

https://www.amazon.com/Hard-Luck-Undermines-Moral-Responsibility/dp/019870934X

Maybe living things - or, at least, the lucky ones - are somehow destined to achieve perfect one-to-one relationships; that is, perhaps everyone has a true soul-mate out there somewhere. The only question is whether these two halves of a potentially perfect whole will succeeding in finding each other, a la Plato's tongue-in-cheek version. Don't bet on it.

This is not to say that monogamy - even happy, fulfilled monogamy - is impossible, because, in fact, it is altogether within the realm of human possibility. But since it is not natural, it is not easy. Similarly, this is not to say that monogamy isn't desirable, because there is very little connection, if any, between what is natural or easy and what is good.

But let us imagine, just for argument's sake, that plato was factually correct: that for each of us, there exists the perfect mate, the ideal counterpart, the hand-in-glove Siamese twin with whom we would be perfectly in love and eternally happy. There are 6 billion people on our planet of whom we meet probably fewer than several thousand in a lifetime. This works out to about one in a million. Accordingly, for every person we meet there are about 999,999 we never do. And of those few we actually do meet, only a small proportion of those encounters occur for us at ages and in circumstances in which  love and/or marriage - never mind sex - are even feasible. In short, the chances are pretty slim that we will ever meet our perfect other half, even if he or she exists. 

But don't despair! The future is not necessarily bleak, neither for personal happiness nor even monogamy itself (assuming, of course, that one is sufficiently committed, at least to the latter). Even though there may be no perfect other half ideally crafted for each person - just waiting to be thrown together by fate, some enchanted evening - in the course of a loving marriage, two people have the opportunity to hone and shape their shared experiences such that one's partner does in fact become a rather precisely fitting key, uniquely adapted to the other's lock, and vice versa. The perfect fit of a good monogamous marriage is made, not born. And despite the fact that much of our biology seems to tug in the opposite direction, such marriages can in fact be made. It is an everyday miracle. (The Myth of Monogamy)
  
https://www.amazon.com/Success-Luck-Good-Fortune-Meritocracy/dp/0691178305/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IaphLWikHb0
The Role of Luck with Robert Frank

https://www.amazon.com/Fooled-Randomness-Hidden-Markets-Incerto/dp/0812975219

Rob Henderson
@robkhenderson
"hard work and discipline can lead someone to achieve a comfortable life with a very high probability. Beyond that, it is all randomness: either by taking enormous (and unconscious) risks, or by being extraordinarily lucky." https://amzn.to/3yAbXC8

https://quillette.com/2019/01/06/genes-environment-and-luck-what-we-can-and-cannot-control/

Rolf Degen‏ @DegenRolfСледване на @DegenRolf
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Luck is all you need: Paper argues that common thinking and performance statistics belittle the weight of randomness in life success. https://arxiv.org/abs/1802.07068

https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1789215881811075462
OR YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK EITHER BY BEING SUPERSTITIOUS OR BY BELIEVING THAT G00D THINGS HAPPEN TO YOU (BELIEVING THAT YOU'RE LUCKY) AND EXUDING THIS SENTIMENT.
https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1838729197646160228
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=921nsh8sK8U
Miracle, Luck, or Chance?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/between-you-and-me/201803/how-luck-shapes-your-life-part-1

Two physicists and an economist recently teamed up to formally model the role of random chance in lifetime success. They created a mathematical model which tracked people over 40 years (all simulated). The people in their model were given differing amounts of talent (defined as the ability to successfully exploit lucky opportunities) and exposed to differing amounts of lucky and unlucky events throughout their (simulated) 40-year career. In the end, although talent had been normally distributed across their population, only a few people ended up being hugely successful. And those people? They weren’t the most talented—they were the ones who had the most lucky breaks. Talent did matter, since people had to have some talent in order to make the most of the opportunities presented to them. But people with little talent and a lot of lucky breaks tended to be much more successful than those who were highly talented but had fewer lucky breaks. And a lot of bad luck could bring down even the most talented people.

Luck, good or bad, builds on itself. Imagine two actresses who both audition for a recurring role on a TV show. They are equally good and neither has prior experience. In the end, the director flips a coin to pick between them. Due to the luck of a coin, one of them is awarded the role, the other one is not. The next time they both go to an audition they again perform equally well, but one of them has this recurring role on her resume. The actress with the prior role lands the job—after all, she has more experience. The next time those two actresses go up against each other, they do not perform equally well. The actress with two jobs under her belt has more practice and starts to outperform the other actress. And so, based on the flip of a coin, one star is born and the other one vanishes into obscurity. Termed “The Matthew Effect,” this phenomenon is named after a parable in the Gospel of Matthew in which the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

What the Matthew Effect means for us is that an early win can set people up for a lifetime of success, whereas early failures can be hard to come back from. At an extreme, adverse experiences in childhood (abuse, extreme poverty, neglect) can lead to life-long impairments. The more adversity children face, the more likely they are to be developmentally delayed, and to have physical and mental health problems into adulthood (heart disease, depression, diabetes, among others). Children who are lucky enough to be removed from these situations early in life (before age 2) are more likely to catch up with normal development than those who are placed in responsive environments later in life. Of course, random chance is not the only factor that matters—even in adverse environments some children manage tp thrive, prompting very interesting research on resiliency. But, unfortunately, those children are the exception, not the rule. And research suggests that even the children who struggle the worst in an adverse environment could succeed, and even thrive, if given the right opportunity.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/between-you-and-me/201803/how-luck-shapes-your-relationship-part-2
https://x.com/DegenRolf/status/1834986332822573358
Rolf Degen
@DegenRolf
Meta-analysis: Throughout the animal kingdom, winning increases the odds of winning subsequent fights to the same degree that losing increases the odds of losing subsequent fights. https://sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0003347224002173?dgcid=raven_sd_via_email… Aggressive interactions can strongly influence an animal's performance in subsequent contests. Winners of aggressive contests are more likely to win successive contests and losers are more likely to lose successive contests.

https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/solutions/2021/07/20/how-genetic-lottery-can-influence-host-lifes-outcomes/7958864002/

Here is a thought experiment for you. How much praise do you deserve for the good things that have happened in your life? And how much blame do you deserve for the bad? As a scientist who specializes in social genomics — the study of how the interplay of genetics and social environments influences our lives — I argue that much of what happens to us in life is really a matter of luck.

Many types of luck affect our lives: who our parents are; when and where we are born; whether the tornado that passed through our hometown hit our house or not. All of these types of luck are beyond our control. And yet, they shape who we are and what happens to us throughout our lives.

One fundamental example of luck is the set of genes we get from our parents. Everyone starts with a random combination of their parents’ genes that are fixed at conception and remain unchanged from that day forward. In other words, we get our start in life through a genetic lottery in which many outcomes are possible, but only one materializes.

The results of this lottery have a big effect on your life. But they don’t control everything. The relationship between our genes and the shape of our lives is far more complicated than that.
...

My long experience studying how life outcomes are affected by the random results of our individual genetic lottery makes me feel humbled by the good things that have happened to me. It also makes me skeptical when others claim that they “deserve” something or when they blame bad fortune on the person unlucky enough to be its victim. Instead, I find that modesty and sympathy for others are the most natural responses to the lessons that modern genetics continues to teach us.


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https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1727344006068339170
Rob Henderson
@robkhenderson
"Unlucky people tend to be creatures of routine. They tend to take the same route to and from work and talk to the same types of people at parties. In contrast, many lucky people try to introduce variety into their lives."
 https://michaelshermer.com/sciam-columns/as-luck-would-have-it/
Lucky people score significantly higher than unlucky people on extroversion. “There are three ways in which lucky people’s extroversion significantly increases the likelihood of their having a lucky chance encounter,” Wiseman explains: “meeting a large number of people, being a ‘social magnet’ and keeping in contact with people.” Lucky people, for example, smile twice as often and engage in more eye contact than unlucky people do, which leads to more social encounters, which generates more opportunities.

The neuroticism dimension measures how anxious or relaxed someone is, and Wiseman found that the lucky ones were half as anxious as the unlucky ones — that is, “because lucky people tend to be more relaxed than most, they are more likely to notice chance opportunities, even when they are not expecting them.” In one experiment, Wiseman had volunteers count the number of photographs in a newspaper. Lucky subjects were more likely to notice on page two the half-page ad with the message in large bold type: STOP COUNTING—THERE ARE 43 PHOTOGRAPHS IN THIS NEWSPAPER.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liyXmIQOTLs
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Wiseman discovered that lucky people also score significantly higher in openness than unlucky people do. “Lucky people are open to new experiences in their lives … They don’t tend to be bound by convention and they like the notion of unpredictability,” he notes. As such, lucky people travel more, encounter novel prospects and welcome unique opportunities.

https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1677975529138405377
Rob Henderson
@robkhenderson
“You make yourself widely known and famous because you increase your chances of getting lucky in some way you can’t predict in advance. One point of fame is to simply increase your surface area exposure to lucky accidents.”
https://x.com/robkhenderson/status/1677975227140124672
Rob Henderson
@robkhenderson
"When you read biographies of people who've done great work, it's remarkable how much luck is involved. They discover what to work on as a result of a chance meeting, or by reading a book they happen to pick up. So you need to make yourself a big target for luck, and the way to do that is to be curious. Try lots of things, meet lots of people, read lots of books, ask lots of questions." http://paulgraham.com/greatwork.html?utm_source=pocket_saves





Rolf Degen
@DegenRolf

Some guys have all the luck: Is randomness more important for reproductive success than the possession of "good" traits?

journals.uchicago.edu/doi/abs/10.108

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29570408/
While there has been extensive interest in how intraspecific trait variation affects ecological processes, outcomes are highly variable even when individuals are identical: some are lucky, while others are not. Trait variation is therefore important only if it adds substantially to the variability produced by luck.
Posted by Peter G. B. Dagampat at 11:56 AM
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